Monday, May 6, 2013

The Adventures of My First Conference! OWFI!

Hi everyone!

I went to the OWFI conference this weekend. It was my FIRST conference! My FIRST PITCH session, too! I had so much fun! And I met so many awesome people!

I got to meet Aaron from Aaron's Word Tree--pretty sure he was thinking, "OMG, this girl talks WAY too much!" He's such a nice guy!  I met Becca, she blogs over at Rebekah Loper, Writer. Her and her friends Victoria and Jessica were so awesome and sweet. Becca also got a full request from an agent after her pitch session! I also got to see Jennifer McMurrain from afar as she was honored at the Famous Author's banquet!

Oh, and I talked to Patrick Rothfuss. He is hilarious. You all missed an absolutely wonderful adult picture book. haha.

Here's a fuzzy Patrick:

Okay, conference details. 

I'm going to talk about my pitch session first. I was prepared because of the wonderful and amazing Rachel Pudelek who sent me a bunch of info on pitch session. I had chosen to pitch to Sara D'Emic  of Talcott Notch Literary Services. I read that she wanted, "an awesome fantasy, adult or YA...and stories with morally ambiguous, conflicted, or anti-heroic characters." I was, that's me!

Anyways, the day before the pitch I was feeling glum. Not only was it dead week, but I've had to report fraud all week at my job (and that is intense and draining), and I wasn't prepared (or didn't feel prepared) for my pitch. My friend Emily and I watched a video about positive thinking--you know, the whole 'secret to life thing?' Well, I really believe that, and after that video I felt pumped and motivated.

I chose three things to tell myself the day of my pitch (and I continued after), they were:
I am awesome
I am an awesome writer
I HAVE an agent.

I don't have an agent, but if I tell myself I have one, it's more positive than saying "I will have an agent."

I went to the agent panel before my pitch so I could see all the agents, and get an idea of the type of person Sara was. She was super sweet and tiny. lol. When my pitch time rolled around, I told myself all those motivation things, and did breathing exercises because my anxiety was through the roof. It was still through the roof when I sat down before Sara, and I couldn't speak well. I also couldn't tell if she was interested and I almost gave up half way through the pitch (seriously, I remember wanting to stop talking and just walk away). She asked me a few questions and then goes, "Well, I am definitely interested."

She asked for a parital!!

This was what I had hoped for!! I was so...relieved.

That's a great way to describe it. Relieved.

So, next time, I'd like to be more calm. LOL.

Okay, now for the workshops....

I realized that many people don't actually search the web for information on agents and publishers. Maybe it's just cause I'm 23 and I grew up as 'sort of' a digital native, or that I'm getting a Master's in Library Science and Information Technology, but this surprised me. I went to the Agent Panel, and was so surprised by the questions that were asked like, "What do you represent?" My thought was, "Didn't you look them up online?"

Guess not?

Just a surprise.

The same went for some of the Social Media Panel. As an MLIS student, I was super saddened hearing people's fear of the internet. I had NO idea people were afraid of the internet! It was certainly something that opened my eyes to how other perceive the digital world.

The YA Panel was very interesting, and I enjoyed listening to the authors exchange ideas about books (though, because I had a class on YA this semester, I didn't learn a ton that was new to me). I also took a workshop on Blogging which was very helpful (since I've been struggling with it recently, mostly because of how busy I am, but also because of content).

There were classes I wish I could have taken like YA: what it is, what it isn't how to write it, and how to sell it, but it was during my pitch. :/

Okay, so what are some things I took away?

1. Agents are PEOPLE.
Yeah, and I can tell myself that still, but that was as intimating as ever.

2. Pitching is like speed dating.
I've never done speed dating, but if I had, I imagine it would be like my pitch session.

3. Writers are introverts unless they are at conferences.
Maybe it's cause there's alcohol?

4. I know what a buzz session is now!

5. As a writer, I feel like I am on a new level.
I can explain this one a little further--it hit me today that I am at a new level as a writer. I've moved passed not getting responses, or just a flood of rejections (I mean, I still get both) BUT, now I've gotten REQUESTS. Man, just thinking about's empowering and so awesome. It makes me realize two things: ANYTHING can happen, and I've STILL got a long way to go.

Okay, so tell me: what are your experiences pitching? What's your favorite thing about conferences (if you say alcohol, I'll laugh)? 


  1. I feel like I know what video you're talking about. That's great to have those positive affirmations! Congrats on getting a partial! And thanks for sharing your adventure (:

    1. I don't remember what it was called, but Louise Hay was the speaker! Thanks, Fida!

  2. "Writers are introverts unless they are at conferences."

    Maybe it's because for once we're surrounded by like-minded people? I mean, maybe it's just me, but I don't have any IRL writer friends. Definitely a plus for conferences.

    1. haha! Yours is probably the more accurate than my conclusion.

      However, I prefer to think that alcohol brings us together--that's funnier.

    2. No, no, I think you're right. It's just that I wasn't buzzed... That's probably why I didn't make very many new friends. But next time!

  3. I haven't been to any writer's conferences, but my favorite part of all of the science conferences has been the alcohol--I mean the poster sessions, where everyone talks over their work while enjoying a fine brew.

    1. LOL. Yay for alcohol! It sure makes things interesting!

  4. It was wonderful meeting you! Sara was actually the agent who asked for my full, also, and it's awesome that she asked for a partial from you! Pitches are so much less scary now, aren't they? XD

    Though I think they'll always be nerve-wracking for me, no matter what I do...

    1. Haha! Pitches will always be scary! Hopefully I won't have to do too many. LOL.

      Congrats on your first place win, along with your fulls! That's so awesome!

  5. Oh no, I missed you! I only saw Rebekah as far as fellow bloggers goes. And we were both sitting in the agent panel room.

    1. Laura! I couldn't find your e-mail on my phone while I was there or I would have e-mailed you! :/ Aaron was also at the Agent Panel, but I didn't meet him until later that evening, lol.

  6. Ooo! I love that-'I have an agent' as positive reality bringer. Congrats on your partial request! I'm so impressed that you survived a live pitch. I think my knees would have given out before I got that far ;)

  7. I almost didn't survive! LOL! I bet you could do it! Next time, I think I'll take a shot. hahaha!

  8. Congratulations on your first conference. And double congratulations for doing your research. Agents and editors can't stand it when wannabes don't know their areas of interest. But keep putting yourself out there and be bold about it. It's not about you; it's about people who deserve to see your stories in print.